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MickRidem
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Regretting the gains
So, it's not really the gain that's a problem, but the company?
Grommr is an ...interesting place. A lot of hit or miss, and some who are outright disrespectful. Is this something you can ju...
Grommr is an ...interesting place. A lot of hit or miss, and some who are outright disrespectful. Is this something you can ju...
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MickRidem
1 week
Looking for "padded-in-public" ideas
After thinking about it some more I'm probably NOT gonna do it, it's too high-profile for a guy who's trying to not be recognized lol. I'm too paranoid that there'd be a coworker or neighbor in t...
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MickRidem
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Is this fetish permanent?
I'm 50, and as others have mentioned, there are waves, but for me it has never gone away. It can sit on the backburner for various lengths of time, but it can also surge forward to the point of...
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MickRidem
1 week
Looking for "padded-in-public" ideas
Oh WOW!! You gotta do that!! 😁
So I went back and read all your posts. Thanks for the link, that looks amazing! 👍👍 I'm formulating ideas on different setups which is fun and hot by ...
So I went back and read all your posts. Thanks for the link, that looks amazing! 👍👍 I'm formulating ideas on different setups which is fun and hot by ...
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MickRidem
1 week
Looking for "padded-in-public" ideas
Tell me more about base gel? When I Google it I get a lot of nail polish results. 😆
50lbs sounds like a *perfect* addition. Not impossible, definitely a difference. I wonder if I could s...
50lbs sounds like a *perfect* addition. Not impossible, definitely a difference. I wonder if I could s...
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MickRidem
1 week
Looking for "padded-in-public" ideas
I was just thinking about this today!
I would make sure my padding included some decent *weight*, so I could feel that difference as well as the size. Someone once suggested caulking in giant zi...
I would make sure my padding included some decent *weight*, so I could feel that difference as well as the size. Someone once suggested caulking in giant zi...
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MickRidem
1 week
Gaining while on insulin
You're asking if you should adjust insulin levels to gain weight.
Munchies is very knowledgeable, and correct in expressing the dangers of doing this.
If you're asking how to gain as a Di...
Munchies is very knowledgeable, and correct in expressing the dangers of doing this.
If you're asking how to gain as a Di...
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MickRidem
2 weeks
Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?
Thank you! Knowing what I can work on to improve, and what I need to deal with that isn't changing, helps immensely.
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MickRidem
2 weeks
Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?
I have PTSD, and OCD, and it was the brain-changing trauma that altered how I function, so they are tied together. My therapist (of over 10 years) is trying to help me sort out a lot of things,...
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MickRidem
2 weeks
Playful comments about your size
This week a little boy, around 8 or 9 maybe, asked me why I have a big belly, and if it was because I like to eat a lot. I was caught off guard, laughed and answered, "YUP!" 🤣😁
Kids and th...
Kids and th...
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MickRidem
2 weeks
Roll call! any other autistic feedist in the house?
Not Autistic, but trauma-based spectrum here. I was tested and have half of the spectrum behaviors, mostly routine and sensory based.
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MickRidem
1 month
Weight gain and self love
I think I'll address the therapy part first. There isn't usually a before and after difference per each individual appointments. It's someone who is *qualified* to help you cope with your indiv...
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MickRidem
1 month
Weight gain and self love
I think you and I have chatted in the past. We have a lot in common. 👍
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MickRidem
1 month
Weight gain and self love
Narcissists love a good target, I know this all too well. And when I read this, I wonder if part of it for me is similar. A good chance.
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MickRidem
1 month
Weight gain and self love
🤣 Sure, I can choose not to answer if I'm uncomfortable with anything. Here, or in a private message?
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MickRidem
1 month
Weight gain and self love
This can, and has happened to me. 😁
I know I'm older than a lot of people here, but I've had many years of struggling with confidence, with self-image, and self love. Therapy has helped immen...
I know I'm older than a lot of people here, but I've had many years of struggling with confidence, with self-image, and self love. Therapy has helped immen...
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MickRidem
1 month
I cant decide aaa
I *thought* I'd be #3 back in the day... turns out I was wrong. 🤣 #1 (jiggles belly)
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MickRidem
1 month
I cant decide aaa
A lot of people struggle with this. You're not alone! 😁
You have a couple of choices. Find a way to enjoy these feelings without gaining, like bloating or padding or only occasional stuff...
You have a couple of choices. Find a way to enjoy these feelings without gaining, like bloating or padding or only occasional stuff...
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MickRidem
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