My wife keeps becoming more and MORE of a feedee. When we started dating, she was pretty thick and confident in her body but her attitude was, "I'm not fat! Just curvy!"
Then it was "Honey I'm so obese, I just can't stop eating!"
But I think she's moved onto a new stage where she actively wants to get as fat as possible. She learned she lost weight during the pandemic, and she was upset and even a little angry! That in itself makes me so proud of her for taking pride in her own obesity.
But she's DEFINITELY not getting skinnier. She's so flabby she's at the "growing body parts normal girls just don't have" stage of obesity. Which means that weight loss must have all been muscle mass. This calmed her down and reassured her. What made her really happy is me vowing to help her gain all that mass back- except this time it will be pure lard. We even set an ideal target weight for her: 450 pounds. At 4'10", that would be like me pushing 700! So we both don't know if she can reach that mass, but it feels good to have goals!
1 year
